So now that I've answered the question, can I handle it?

So far, the answer is no. Actually I mean to say "HELLLLL NOOOOO!" But then I can hear my mother in the back of my mind saying, "Don't sabatoge this looking for things that aren't really there." But since answering "yes" to "Will you be my girlfriend?" a new phenomenon has started occuring. Yes, a new phenomemon is happening and it's called scared shitless.

When a woman has dealt with enough bs men, she tends to forget that not all of them are like that. She can go about her business, dealing with guy after guy, always prepared for the level of nonsense that he will bring to the table. In fact, the nonsense doesn't even phase her anymore, that's how much it has occured. And then one day, while minding her business, a man who isn't full of bs chooses her. But what does she notice- the shit on his shoes maybe? Nope, he's clean. So what do you do when there is nothing there? Well you do what you are supposed to do- you deal with it and keep moving!